Guides
Practical help with the things that matter most: the words you want to leave, and what your family will need.
How to write a letter to your children
A gentle, practical guide to writing a letter your children can read when you're no longer here: what to say, how to start, and how to make sure it reaches them.
What to prepare for your family: a practical checklist
The documents, accounts and information your family will need if something happens to you, gathered into one simple checklist you can work through a little at a time.
What is an ethical will, and how do you write one?
An ethical will passes on your values, stories and hopes rather than your possessions. Here's what it is, what to include, and a simple structure to follow.
How to record a video message for the people you love
You don't need equipment or experience to record a meaningful video message. A phone, a quiet room and these simple tips are enough.
Your digital life after you're gone: accounts, photos and passwords
Phones, email, photos, social media and online money: what happens to them when you die, and how to make things easier for your family without sharing passwords unsafely.
How to talk to your family about your wishes
Conversations about death and end-of-life wishes are hard to start but bring real relief. Here's how to open the subject, what to cover, and what to do if it doesn't go well.
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